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  1. You know, and please understand I am not being critical, but I wonder if it would help if you shift your prayer focus. I always seeing you praying for your bride versus yourself. If it were me, I would be asking God for the wisdom and guidance to bring healing to my wife. I would be asking for Him to put my heart in a place of understanding and love. My immediate thought when I read your post, is that "CL is missing something". Something he is doing (or not doing) is not bring a sense of safety to his wife's heart. Just my .02
  2. Be cautious in this area. Personally, I'm not a bid fan of Gary Chapman if that is what you are going by. Your wife may be very affectionate, but something from her childhood, a prior relationship, her Dad, as well as your marriage before you started to change, may have taught her to protect her heart. I speak from personal experience on this. Also - remember some women may feel like they are prostituting themselves with sex. TP
  3. Hmmm - David, i think I would stop with all the public daily devotionals, prayers, and all the other "religious" stuff for the moment. Including all the Facebook posts, etc. There was something you said a few posts back, and I can't grab it at the moment, but it was in reference to one of the things that N found attractive about you early on, was your relationship to God (or something to that effect). Well, its been evident through the years of your marriage the relationship was not manifesting itself at home. Its entirely possible that all this spiritual mumbo jumbo your doing is tur
  4. Yup - Die to yourself and leave it alone. Apologize for violating her trust if necessary. I understand that feeling that sits deep in your stomach and sickens your heart but you always have to realize that her affairs were created by unmet needs of that old husband you used to be. In His service....TP
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