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Charles from Cali

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  1. Hello everyone Just popping in to say hi... I'll be retired in 12 days . Kids are doing well and ex is 7 months pregnant from the other guy . Still praying for her and we're cordial .... All in all.. Can't complain.. God is still good Take care!!!! God bless
  2. Sounding good!!! Just remember this.... Whenever you feel the need to point out to your wife that you're changing... You're really not.. Let your actions speak for you, not your mouth God bless And one more helpful hint.... Your wife said she needs time.. So NEVER ask her for a status update... That WILL put pressure on her and you might not like the answer..... Just keep living this out and be Christlike.. Your wife will give you updates when HER heart is ready.... PLUS.. You don't want to be looked at as a puppy doing tricks for a treat... Just maintain and let God work .... God bless
  3. Awesome job on pulling yourself out of the pit... Merry Christmas... Even though WE'RE by ourselves... We're never alone
  4. If porn WAS a problem.. it still effected your wife..your wife was still scarred... Just because you're over it. She's not.. And your idea of throwing your family in a cave so no one can see TV is unrealistic... It's your job to love the hurt away and if your wife is offended by you viewing dancing with the stars...REGARDLESS of how you want to describe it.... Your wife's pain and memories are real.... Let's just say your son was watching the show and made suggestive comments.... What does ANY of his actions have anything to do with you and your marriage.... ??? It's cool... I understand
  5. Hi there... I'm a guy I will take a random shot in the dark and guess that your wife thinks you view porn.. A woman will never feel comfortable in her own skin when her husband chooses fantasy over reality... But.... I could be wrong
  6. I tried to post an update... But it wouldn't let me ... So here is the edit.... Dude.... Stop getting/gathering/ hunting for new information to hide behind.. Sit down... I'm happy you're learning.. But stop asking so many questions..especially the question in your last paragraph.... You already have the answer... Seek FIRST the kingdom of God.... And ALL these things will be added unto you.... Whatever you need is wrapped up in "ALL" ... But you first have to seek God... Figure that out... It's not a mystery... The more time you'll spend with HIM, the more you'll be like hi
  7. Dude.... Stop getting/gathering/ hunting for new information to hide behind.. Sit down... I'm happy you're learning.. But stop asking so many questions.. You already have the answer... Seek FIRST the kingdom of God.... And ALL these thing will be added unto you.... Whatever you need is wrapped up in "ALL" ... But you first have to seek God... Figure that out... Because if you don't.... 2 years from now.. You'll learn another reason why you're all jacked up and hide behind a "new" revelation without any change.... I'm not a cheerleader... I'm no different than you... I resp
  8. You're welcome.... Meditate.. That just means to keep reading.. Speaking.. Mumble to yourself when you can't be loud Over and over Gods word.. Christian Song lyrics..ANYTHING. It's not a mystery.. You just need to reprogram your mind... Repetition will break the chains because until you think different.. You'll never live different..transform yourself .. Not by your own strength.. God WILL show up when you give Him something to work with Check out Romans 12...the first 2 verses God bless man... Don't have a pity party because no one will show up... Put NOW in a choke hold and don't let go
  9. This is in love.... Anyone that YoYo's as much as you and self destructs the way you do... Only says 1 thing.. It's not that you don't know the how .....it's that it's not your true desire to change.. You can say it is... But NOTHING is as hard as you are making it... If it was something you really wanted.. You wouldn't sleep until you had it... I am so OVER hearing how hard this is.. And how God can't be found and HIS ways are so out of reach and I can't feel HIM loving me... Or I don't deserve HIS love.... Your wife knows you like a book that's been turned into a TV show... And she's t
  10. It gets easier..... Trust me... I know exactly what you are going through... What works for me is this..... Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus. (Philippians 3:13, 14 KJV) Forgetting ...... All you have is now... You don't even have tomorrow... Your wife is remarried.. Mine is now my ex and already living with another man.... We can either continuously kick ourselves in the h
  11. God is ALWAYS there.... It's like watching TV... If you're watching channel 4, does it mean that channel 2 doesn't exist, is hiding or went away??? We make the choice which channel we want our attention going to.. YOU hold the remote
  12. I deleted my post since I was way off from TP and MJ.. Stay in the fight
  13. My man.... You'll never win trying to explain yourself... You honestly just have to be creative and find ways to love her.. And when you come up blank.. Just ask God for insight.. If HE tells you what to do.. She will be blessed... If it comes from only you... It's going to irritate her... All you can do is be like Jesus.. He never said a mumbling word when he was going through all the chaos before the cross.. He just loved.. That is the only way your wife will see you changing.. In TIME not overnight... Divorced or not.. You will only change when you allow God to work in you and throu
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