I'm new here and single. My parents have been to 2 intensives and tell me I really need to get to one. I've been divorced twice and just recently got out of an an abusive long term relationship. What can I say but I'm absolutely miserable. I can honestly say though that I'm not at the lowest point in my life. Have already been there and done that, but I seem to always pick the same men over and over. This never ending cycle just makes my head spin and ends up with me severely hurt, scared, and crying.