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About 1savedman

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    Believing God for Miracles in Marriages
  • Birthday 09/08/1950

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  1. Enough already! What don't you people understand! SHE TOLD ME TO STAY OUT OF HER LIFE. And that's what I was doing. Perhaps she changed her mind about that request. I will contact her directly and ask what her thoughts are. Until all the facts are known, how about a little less condemnation and a little less "gossip." Her situation is critical. She could very easily become homeless. Then what? I certainly can't do anything about that. When I had the ability to help, she flatly refused. She told me she had it all under control. Obviously not. ..... And about that birthday wish for Ashley....
  2. It is not possible to help someone who really does not want the help. I paid that electric bill because my kids needed help. They called me before their mom did. I am thankful that I had the resources to take care of it. No other motives. No other reasons.
  3. It is just after Christmas 2009. This, most probably, is the last Christmas that I will remember as being there with my family. Not because of some incurable medical condition. Not because of some military deployment or obscure job transfer. Not because of some criminal act or even my own physical demise. Oh, no! None of these things are as painful as the true reason that I must leave my family. For you see, dear reader, that I am a bad husband. I have given my wife no other choice but to send me away. It is really all my fault. I can blame no one else for the failure of my marriage. I have ca
  4. The CH Spurgeon devotion for today discussed these verses. 1 John 1:6 "...Fellowship with Him." Deuteronomy 7:22 "The Lord thy God will put out those nations before thee by little and little." The essence of the first verse is that we have fellowship with Christ in His love, in His desires, in His sufferings and in His joys. By completing this fellowship, we as His bride will be sitting with Him at His throne. I believe this to mean that I as a husband should achieve the same fellowship with my wife. My purpose to do this is so that the glory of the Lord will await us. The verse from Deut
  5. Quote from eeyore: "here is a tangible example of dying to self that has nothing to do with your wife... I have seen you numerous times be extremely short-tempered with people who work at a retail store (both on the phone and in person)." . Thank you for pointing this out. I was unaware that I am still acting like this. .
  6. Dear Looney, Good morning my lovely wife. How are you today? Is there anything you have planned or that you want to do? I know there is the doctor appointment to evaluate my ADD and I want you to know that I appreciate that you are able to get me there. I also want to tell you that while I have never been keen on the idea of taking any drugs, I will do what the doctor recommends with the intention that it will make a difference in our marriage. . . Dear nice Sister Eeyore, Dying to self has many descriptions. One is doing what I might not want or like to do, but doing it anyway an
  7. To my Dear Loon, I am sorry that phone in the bedroom rang again while you were trying to sleep. I have marked it now so that anyone who uses it will know where to return it. Now it should not get swapped with the one that rings from the living room. . I Love you. You are the center of my universe. . . For Him For Her, Eeyore and PIH You all have presented really great ideas here and I have implemented some of them. The real test will be what Loon sees as following her heart. . Have a great day - I'm off to hug my loon. .
  8. Dear Lovely Looney, What can I do to bless you today? . To paraphrase Solomon's Song of Songs... (1:9) To me you are a fine filly, harnessed yet unbridled. . I Love You. .
  9. Is there any class for romance 101? I have lost that skill. Perhaps I am angry with myself and therefore I can't express love. . The things that worked during dating don't have a place here. They are deemed too childish. What course do I follow? One direction says make it fun and another infers it to be totally serious. . Maybe I never learned what real love is. Maybe I only know how to lust for my wife. . The end result is I am not meeting any of her needs and it is frustrating. . Tasks mean nothing, for anyone can do them. For now they are all I can do. .
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