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  1. Heavenly Father, in the name of Jesus, I ask for and speak blessings over my wife. I thank You Lord that You are healing her heart with Your Perfect Love. I pray for my wife's beauty - inside and out- to become as evident to her as it is to everyone else and that she would be encouraged and blessed by this revelation. I pray for strength and stability in my wife's emotions and thoughts. I ask for Your glory and power Lord to heal every wounded, fragile place in her heart that my sins against her have caused.... and I thank you God for this! I pray for my wife's success and enjoyment in all th
  2. Thanks MJ. Last night we talked about more about our physical intimacy. This continues to be an area that is in need of healing to become more healthy. My primary love language is physical touch and my wife being an introvert generally prefers more physical space and less touch. For the first time she acknowledged we may need 3rd party help in this area. There is certainly brokenness here that needs repair and both my wife and I could use help in this area. So the good thing is we recognize the problem, the harder part is the way forward. I encouraged my wife to do her own discovery
  3. Heavenly Father, in the name of Jesus, I ask for and speak blessings over my wife. I thank You Lord that You are healing her heart with Your Perfect Love. I pray for my wife's beauty - inside and out- to become as evident to her as it is to everyone else and that she would be encouraged and blessed by this revelation. I pray for strength and stability in my wife's emotions and thoughts. I ask for Your glory and power Lord to heal every wounded, fragile place in her heart that my sins against her have caused.... and I thank you God for this! I pray for my wife's success and enjoyment in all th
  4. Hi Kathy and Joel, Just a quick update, thankfully the warming trend continues for us. A bit more kisses and longer hugs. We had a nice date out this weekend thanks in part to friends from church watching the kids. I continue to find little ways I can bless my wife such as making juice in the morning and giving little massages. We actually got to sit on the couch yesterday and she laid her legs across mine. It was nice to smile back and forth with each other. I am so thankful we have come thus far. Praise be to God. I love my wife.
  5. Glad to see a post from you. It has been awhile. God bless you and keep you.
  6. Just came across another interesting article related to oxytocin titled, To Touch or Not to Touch - The Lost Art of Human Connection. Keep up the great work all. I have been able to give my wife kisses nearly daily which is a big improvement for us. We had a good date night on Sunday seeing Risen which was an OK movie, more historically accurate than biblically accurate. I hope everyone has a great week.
  7. Thanks for the post 4evr. I was wondering how you were doing.
  8. Quick praise report. I returned safely from my work trip and my wife and family survived the family birthday party over the weekend. Overall nice morning home with the family...just wish it was longer before heading back into work today. Thank you Lord for the many blessings in my life. I love my wife!
  9. Passion4one, I am glad to see your continued posts and involvement in the men's calls. Keep blessing your wife's socks off. I just prayed for your family today.
  10. Palmer, Joel and MJ have poured into you. In addition to going to the intensive in April I HIGHLY encourage you to get on the Men's calls as well. It has taken me over two years of regular involvement to help make the changes in me. You could be so much farther along with the intensive and calls. You won't see real change without commitment and perseverance. You CAN do this. God is ready to equip us. Put on your full armor of God and commit your ways to the Lord. He will give you the desires of your heart. Brother, now is the time to pursue Christ and your bride like no other.
  11. Praise report for a very nice Valentine's Day weekend. We have the family visit all squared away for Thursday. I continue to participate in the oxytocin game giving as many hugs, kisses and snuggles as I am able to. Overall my advances have been well received - thanks be to God!
  12. Thanks MJ for your comments. Fortunately we have already set aside next Thursday to spend time together as a family with my Dad and sisters, this was set-up weeks ago. My wife further clarified to me that she does not feel inclusive of my family while her family has been so inclusive of me. She was concerned by telling me this that I would make things worse for her. I reassured her that I would let what she shared sink in and not jump to any action. I am praying about how to proceed here. Clearly there is still hurt from my previous actions of talking about her in my hurt state years ago
  13. Hi all, Things have been going better overall, but I know the upcoming week is anticipated to be stressful for my wife. Please pray for me that I make wise decisions and protect my wife's heart. This coming Sunday my Dad and his girlfriend are coming to town. My wife does not feel loved or wanted by my Dad. I myself have never been extremely close with my Dad. He really wants to spend as much time with the family, in particular the grandkids this coming week or so as he lives out of state and we only see him once or twice a year. I had forgotten to remind my wife earlier that our office
  14. Heavenly Father, in the name of Jesus, I ask for and speak blessings over my wife. I thank You Lord that You are healing her heart with Your Perfect Love. I pray for my wife's beauty - inside and out- to become as evident to her as it is to everyone else and that she would be encouraged and blessed by this revelation. I pray for strength and stability in my wife's emotions and thoughts. I ask for Your glory and power Lord to heal every wounded, fragile place in her heart that my sins against her have caused.... and I thank you God for this! I pray for my wife's success and enjoyment in all th
  15. Glad to have you both here. We look forward to hearing about your progress. I am on the men's calls pretty regularly so I look forward to hearing River's Edge there and you both on the couple's calls too. God bless.
  16. Yes very wise MJ. I am glad I get it more than when I first came to the ministry. I was able to give my wife a big hug and kiss this morning. Thanks be to God!
  17. I like it Kathy... https://youtu.be/Bj9LGlWybG4 Great update Rainbowbright5. Your husband is surely raising the stakes.
  18. Thanks for the update Skiingco. I am sorry to hear she rejected the offer. It sounded reasonable based on what I understood on the call. Perhaps as Joel suggested she does want to sell the house and move on from those memories but it is hard for her to let go. It sounds like you are are in a better place. You may be one of the few people shining the light of Christ in her life - keep fighting the good fight. I am praying for you brother.
  19. Passione4one - saw the update from your wife this weekend. Great job!! Keep it up.
  20. Thanks Erik. I like where you are going with this. I was just working on my will and living trust today. It is a good prompting to take further action to take care of your family and plan ahead.
  21. OK, looking good ramping up to the contest start date which happens to begin on Saturday when our date is scheduled for breakfast. I am able to give longer hugs and more kisses these days. Thanks be to God.
  22. Passion4one, I saw you post on the Oxytocin thread Kathy started. It would be great to you post an update here. Looking forward to hearing about your journey.
  23. Hey there Jason, it has been awhile since I heard you on the calls. It would be great to get an update here on your journey. God bless you brother.
  24. Skiingco, it was great touching bases with you via phone the other day. I think it would be helpful to post an update here on your journey so far. A lot has happened since you first came to the ministry. God bless you and keep you brother.
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