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  1. Hello to Everyone, Well my phone was stolen and I guess when my DEAR H realized he had no control in talking to them when he felt like it he left a message on my job's phone begging me to have them call him,(he said he really needed to say some things to them)When they mentioned talking to him again, I told them o.k. they could call.HE TOLD THEM HE HAD NOT CALLED THEM IN MONTHS BECAUSE HE WAS MAD AT THEIR MOTHER AND WAS TAKING IT OUT ON THEM!!!!IT MADE ME FURIOUS,THE NERVE OF HIM TO EVEN SAY THAT.HE'S ANGRY BECAUSE I'M ASKING FOR MONEY INCLUDING SPOUSAL SUPPORT(I WILL BE LAID OFF EFFECTIVE JU
  2. Hi my friend PIH, Like I said, that day those scriptures,CHANGED MY LIFE!!!!GUESS WHAT?My DH called again today.His cousin drowned yesterday trying to save his friend and he called me for the details.He then asked again WHY I DIDN'T LET THE KIDS CALL HIM FOR FATHER'S DAY.I told him as you all said the TRUTH,HE CRIED!!!PRAYFULLY GOD is dealing with him.I told him he has been a horrible FATHER!!!!!!!!Now I'll let him deal with it....................WOW,WHAT A MIGHT GOD WE SERVE!!!!!!!!!!
  3. Thanks CELIA, YES,I have an amazing support system,mostly all my friends/relatives are,born again believers,but sometimes you have to get away from people who are attached personally or emotionally.Everyone around me seems to think I should allow him to talk to the kids(he hasn't called in almost 2 months)they say I was wrong for not MAKING the kids call him for,FATHER'S DAY.(they didn't want too)He sent money for the kids to buy me a,NEW BIKE for,MOTHER'S DAY(WHOO HOO)But I also took them to the store and they sent him,singing,FATHERS DAY CARDS(3-expensive)I know he want to see where I am me
  4. HELLO TO ALL, I hope everyone had a,"MIND BLOWING EXPERIENCE" that attended the cruise and a,"HAPPY FATHER'S DAY WEEKEND".I must share something I just experienced with my DH.We have not heard from him since court,MAY 07,and he promised to pick up the kids when he came down but was a,NO SHOW!!!!I knew if the G/F came,it was highly unlikely.she doesn't give him a free moment alone when he's here.She's so afraid he'll be alone with me,ANYWAY,we hadn't heard a peep out of him.Well yesterday morning,(FATHER'S DAY)I encouraged my children(13,11,2) several times through out the day to call him,th
  5. PIH YOUR RESPONSE CAME AS I WAS TYPING OUT MY RESPONSE.I WILL FINISHING READING IT AND DIGEST IT AND RESPONDE TOMORROW!!!GLORY TO GOD!!!!!HALLELUJAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
  6. A SINCERE THANK YOU TO EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU FOR YOUR RESPONSES AND THOSE OF YOU THAT CONTINUE TO COVER THESE BOARDS IN PRAYER AS I DO OFTEN.AS I READ I BEGIN TO FEEL EVEN MORE STRENGTHENED.I FELT LIKE AT ONE POINT I WAS LOOSING GROUND.BUT I KNOW THE DARKEST MOMENT IS JUST BEFORE "THE BREAKING OF DAY" AND I CONTINUE TO PRAY,"LORD I BELIEVE(HEART),HELP MY UNBELIEF(MIND)!!!!!!!!PLEASE CONTINUE TO JOIN WITH ME AS I BIND THE SPIRIT OF WITCHCRAFT AND MIND-BINDING SPIRITS THAT'S AT WORK IN THIS SUITATION.EVERY KNEE SHALL BOW,THAT JESUS CHRIST IS LORD OVER ALL!!!! AS FOR AN ATTORNEY,NO I DON'T H
  7. WOW,THANKS PURPLE, I FEEL LIKE A FISH OUT OF WATER HERE,I CAN NEVER GET MUCH REPONSE.MAYBE I DON'T SOUND DESPERATE ENOUGH,BUT I SINCERLY WOULD LIKE YOUR COMMENTS AND ADVICE.I AM ON HERE READING EVERY SINGLE DAY.MAYBE IT'S ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  8. Good Afternoon All, It's been months since I posted,but I've been reading on the forum almost daily.I had hoped someone would have checked on me but I guess everyone had their own stuff to deal with.Nevertheless,"A breif Update"My H and I went to court on yesterday for our,SETTLEMENT CONFERENCE,of course we could settle nothing because,we never attended mediation like we were suppose to because he never sent his money!!!Mind you,it was $500.00 a person retainer's fee and $275.00 an hour to be spit evenly among us.He said he couldn't afford it and I sure he could't taking care of the G/F.GOD A
  9. WOW,POWERFUL,GMS, WHERE DO YOU LIVE IN INDIANA?I WAS JUST WONDERING BECAUSE WHEN MY HUSBAND WALKED OUT ON US, HE MOVED TO EVANSVILLE,INDIANA WITH HIS ADULTRESS MISTRESS,AND THAT'S WHERE HE RESIDES....
  10. Oh YES,THANKS CELIA,JOEL is going to get the books to him and we'll see what happens.As I stated when we went to court,the JUDGE issued a immediate temporary,CHILD SUPPORT ORDER and back dated it to JAN 01,2009 which meant DH was suppose to send me 2 months support before MARCH 01,instead of following the JUDGE'S ORDER,He sent me 215.00.I need to find a HOME.(WHAT AM I GOING TO DO WITH THAT,I NEED MONEY NOW!!!)I WENT LIVID.YES I CALLED HIM!!!!!!!!He said he doen't have it and will send me 200.00 a week until he catches up,in a week he will be 3 months behind.I come to find out he and the G/F m
  11. I'm just wondering,now that my husband is out of town working and away from her alot, should I try sending him,THE BOOKS again,then he will be at liberty to send them back himself or someone could send them anonymous.Mine is addressed to him.Which ever is best,I don't have a problem either way.I don't want him to think I'm chasing him(which I'm sure he don't)JOEL kept talking about getting the books in his hand.Which would be better for him in his suitation BOOK 1 or BOOK 2!!!!ANY ADVICE HELPERS!!!!!!!!!!
  12. MORE DRAMA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Well court was yesterday and for the most part it went pretty good.I blew my H and his attorney out the water because I asked for,SPOUSAL SUPPORT(alimony)and they were not expecting that.The judge sent us to mediation in APRIL and we go back to court in MAY.He also has to complete the parenting class he never attended before we go back.HERE'S THE DRAMA..................My H never said one word to me in court,never spoke or anything which I thought was strange since he was calling asking me to send him pictures and he sending me pictures of us.He texted and said he w
  13. Tomorrow is our,COURT DAY.PLEASE PRAY FOR ME!!.Child Support ended up being decent after they cleared up the confusion with my income.I'm going to ask the JUDGE for SPOUSAL SUPPORT.There's bills that accumulated that I feel he should be responsibled for as well as continue paying the mortgage until the DIVORCE IS FINAL and C.S. kicks in.I'll update later this week.
  14. Hey Eeyore, I was just reading your last posting and thinking maybe you should consider making the best of your suitation and go into the,HOME DECORATING BUSINESS,right where you are.I know you said you wonder why GOD has brought you to that place,but also remember,"HIS WAYS ARE NOT OUR WAYS,NOR IS HIS THOUGHTS OUR THOUGHTS,FOR THEY BOTH ARE FAR ABOVE OURS.HE WANTS TO BLESS YOU AND NOT HARM YOU AND BRING YOU TO AN EXPECTED IN.YOU ARE A VIRTUOUS WOMAN (PROVERBS 31)AND SHE WORK WELL WITH HER HANDS,EVERYTHING SHE NEEDED WAS RIGHT WITHIN HER REACH!!!BE STRONG IN THE LORD AND IN THE POWER OF HIS M
  15. I stated on my last message I was just waiting to hear fro the,CHILD SUPPORT SPECIALIST,WELL the RECOMMENDATION came back this weekend and it had me making 70,000.00(I don't) and him 25,000.00(that's a joke)which also had me paying 70% of the out of pocket expenses.So I hopped in my car and drove down to the office.They mumbled,jumbled about me writing a complaint and all and I refuse to leave until the supervisor came out and talked to me face-to-face.He did and realized the SPECIALIST used my vacation time instead of my actual WAGES.They only had him paying $800.00 a month in child support.(
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