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Miss Elizabeth

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  1. hey everyone, we know we're hardly ever on the forum ~ we're phone people ~ but we just wanted to touch base and give a bit of an update on how things are going in our marriage. actually, it feels strange to even write something since how we are now is just that - how we are and we don't give how we used to be together much thought anymore because it seems so long ago and foreign to us. four years ago we found this ministry and without a doubt, our marriage is night and day from what it was back then. it was absolutely difficult and kind of scary in the beginning ~ for both of us ~ but t
  2. Hi there HW, It's discouraging to hear that D isn't keeping the commitments he made to you at the intensive and on the last three calls you've both been on with us; . We did encourage grace but not only grace. If that's all you give him he'll never grow. There must be truth mixed in with the grace and right now, the truth is that he's being one way with you on the calls when others are listening and completely different when it's just the two of you - Jekyll and Hyde. We did talk about the LOVER during our one-on-one time with you both so he should know what that looks like and how to walk
  3. I recently found this paper and thought it was a very powerful aid in understanding the devastation of emotional abuse in marriage. "The Silent Killer of Christian Marriages" by Amy Wildman White from Healing the Hurting, Catherine Clark Kroeger & James R. Beck, Editors Emotional abuse, as well as all other forms of abuse, is on the rise in our society, and the Christian community is not exempt. Emotional abuse in the marital relationship is often undetected or misdiagnosed. It is hoped that this text will be an informative tool to aid those who are in an abusive relationship or tho
  4. I recently found this paper and thought it was a very powerful aid in understanding the devastation of emotional abuse in marriage. "The Silent Killer of Christian Marriages" by Amy Wildman White from Healing the Hurting, Catherine Clark Kroeger & James R. Beck, Editors Emotional abuse, as well as all other forms of abuse, is on the rise in our society, and the Christian community is not exempt. Emotional abuse in the marital relationship is often undetected or misdiagnosed. It is hoped that this text will be an informative tool to aid those who are in an abusive relationship or tho
  5. Hey Wil, Just checking in with you to see if you are still planning on attending the Intensive. Michael and I really feel that you should because you'll learn a lot and Michael was sooooo much like you in our bad days and going to an Intensive really opened up his heart and mind to what becoming the man that God calls him to be looked like. Of course, it would be great if both you and REM attended and if that's the case, there will be some guidelines in place just to keep everything humming. Remember to send us that e-mail summary that we requested. Give us your view of the marriage hist
  6. Hey Mr. Committed, SO proud of you! We love you and your beautiful bride bunches and crunches and are always here to be a support for the two of you! Miss Elizabeth
  7. Hey Christ, Considering last nights conversation on the call, I found this blog post today and thought it might speak to you. Not to take away from what your learning here which is great stuff; just to add to. Check it out. http://thom-signsofastruggle.blogspot.com/2010/03/unexpected-upside-of-rejection.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+SignsOfAStruggle+%28Signs+of+a+Struggle%29 Miss Elizabeth
  8. Hey 631, Considering last nights conversation on the call, I found this blog post today and thought it might speak to you. Not to take away from what your learning here which is great stuff; just to add to. Check it out. http://thom-signsofastruggle.blogspot.com/2010/03/unexpected-upside-of-rejection.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+SignsOfAStruggle+%28Signs+of+a+Struggle%29 Miss Elizabeth (Annalea)
  9. Being heavily involved in the Christian Marriage blogosphere, Michael and I often come across some really great posts that we like to share with our forum family and this is one of those times. The following post from a great blog called The Generous Husband http://www.the-generous-husband.com is one of the best tellings of what porn does to a man/husband, how it affects a marriage, and how it hurts a wife. I realize that some of the language may be a bit shocking to some (especially the wives) and I apologize in advance. I've left it in, however because it's real. Just a head's up. Re
  10. Being heavily involved in the Christian Marriage blogosphere, Michael and I often come across some really great posts that we like to share with our forum family and this is one of those times. The following post from another blog is one of the best tellings of what porn does to a man/husband, how it affects a marriage, and how it hurts a wife. I realize that some of the language may be a bit shocking to some (especially the wives) and I apologize in advance. I've left it in, however because it's real. Just a head's up. Really powerful and important insight! Miss Elizabeth
  11. Hey Flyboy, Just to recap what Pink has requested of you and what you have agreed to: You're to come over to the house on Thursday between 5 & 6pm to finish up working on the truck and take pics of it (using your own camera). You're also not to go into the house while you're there even though Pink won't be home. You're going by the house tomorrow afternoon to pick up clothes that Pink will leave out on the porch for you. Again, not going into the house You're to finish making the DVDs for her and put them in the mailbox on Sunday. If you don't finish making the copies by then, you'
  12. I just want all you ladies to know that our precious firewalker may not just feel 10 pounds lighter - she LOOKS it too! I saw her at church today and noticed her lightness right off. It positively shone from every part of her. This has been a long time in coming and I'm so glad that you are breathing again. Tight hugs! Here you go f.w. This one's for you! I'm coming out I want the world to know Got to let it show I'm coming out I want the world to know I got to let it show There's a new me coming out And I just had to live And I wanna give I'm completely positive I think this time aro
  13. Hi There HS ~ Joel wanted me to let you know that Michael and I conduct Marriage Intensives out here in Anaheim, CA. If you and K are ever interested in attending and it's easier to come to one here than in FL, just let us know. Plus, we just live so close to you; also Firewalker and her husband. Miss Elizabeth
  14. Hi there, I just wanted to share the post from our blog that I put up this morning. Mainly to brag on Michael and also to share my meltdown. Just because we're helpers doesn't mean we don't have our moments.
  15. Shock, My name isn't Janice but I'm glad you received some insight on the call last night with regard to what I said about your mother. The following is a great post from Firewalker that I think will be useful to you should you decide to move from being a an insincere, selfish, fleshly (ex)husband to one who is committed to healing your wife despite the cost to your pride. Attributes of a Man committed to Healing: A man who is sincerely pursuing healing his wife's heart will reach out in humility and get the real help he needs. He will recognize his continuing being stuck in the pattern
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