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largeone50

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  1. Hey there Donny. Nice to see you on here. Do some of the things you read on here and you will make your wife very happy.
  2. All right we are rolling. This is a great topic. So far some of you are off to a great start. All I have to say is that you are all lucky that I am NOT allowed in it, otherwise there would be another trophy in my trophy case! With that being said, if you need some ideas check out string near the bottom of the forums under holiday greetings...Happy Anniversary LargeOne & Aslan's Child. http://joelandkathy.invisionzone.com/index.php?/topic/830-happy-birthday-anniversary-largeone-aslanschild/ My advice to all of you is to just have fun with this. Don't put a lot of pressure on your
  3. All right we are rolling!!! John and Susan have entered the building. It's hard to believe all the changes that have happened in the last 3 years. When Susan first came to the ministry she just wanted to get me to stop yelling at her. Boy did her wish come true. Now there is no more yelling. No more arguing. No more fighting. Now we have just beautiful, wonderful, peace. Not only that, I don't put my wife down for how she feels or what she thinks. I accept her for the wonderful gift from God that she is. I use to tell Susan that we were a team. Back then Susan would do most things
  4. Way to go Super Daddy! Now we have to get you doing the things your wife needs so she can scream out I have a Super husband!
  5. Happy Birthday to my beautiful wife Susan!!! May God look down upon you and bless you with all that your heart desires. You are a wonderful gift from God no only to me but to so many other people that you help in life. You are the sweetheart of the century without a doubt. Thanks for teaching me how become the man God made me to be and the husband that you deserve to have. I am so glad to be your husband. I love you with all my heart. Love, Your Hero
  6. Hi there Eric. Wow was Julie spot on! I was going to post a lot to you, but I agree completely with Julie. Great advice Julie. Great job of accepting that advice from her, at least publicly on here. I know that when I first started on the forums I hated to be corrected and to be told what I was doing was wrong. However, I realized that the things I got the most upset about were the things I needed to change the most about myself to be a great husband. This whole process is about being able to understand what your wife needs from you and being that source of life and strength. Your job
  7. Praise Your Way to a Breakthrough! Do you need God to make a way out of no way? The swiftness and surety of your deliverance starts with how you respond to hard times and difficult situations. Hear me when I say that it is not just enough to thank God and honor Him only when you've received a blessing. God wants you to show the extent of your faithfulness and trust in Him even in the midst of going through a challenge. The power of your praise will determine the magnitude of your breakthrough. Praise is not just clapping your hands or applauding God. It is showing respect, honor, and grat
  8. Thanks Abigail, I think? Thanks also to Dory, Tigger, MaryJane and Pure in Heart for your kind words as well. However these words top them all...I saw a man who has a heart like Jesus. And this morning, I saw a tenderness and a depth of love in my husband's eyes I never thought I would ever see. ....we have arrived at our OHM! You know what? I think they're right. My husband is kind, generous, thoughtful, considerate, humble and eager to learn and reflect God in all his ways. This is LargeOne50! This is my husband! Wow my wife is so awesome!! Thank-you for all your kind words.
  9. Hi there Bob is it? Let me speak from personal experience, it is NEVER a good time to tell our wives they need fixing. That is the main part of this ministry. It is our job to love our wives unconditionally just the way they are. Kay said it perfectly, you are making her feel like she is messed up. She might be, LOL, however, it is because she is responding to what you are feeding her. Bob you might have the best intentions to want to "fix" Kay, however the best way in not to offer her advice, but to show her in your actions. She will get "fixed" when you stop trying to change her. She
  10. Can you see any pattern in her physical ailments that correlate to her emotional issues with you. With all the stress of what happened on Thursday it showed up in physical problems with Eeyore over the weekend. Can you see how when you lay your life down for her and put her healing ahead of your feelings you will be bringing both physical and emotional healing to her. Just remember this little phrase, listening to her feelings will bring healings.
  11. Hi there guys. I'm sorry that both of you are going through a tough time. Like coah Mike Ditka once said, "This too shall pass." I know that Steve wants to bring healing to your heart. I know Steve wants to learn to become Christ-like. With that being said, it does not make the hurt any less when he is not putting you first. Pure in Heart said it perfectly: HD, you need to realize that each time you are able to listen to Eeyore's venting and sharring of her heart that you are the source of her healing. That is an awesome gift to have. YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE AND INTRUSTED BY GOD TO BE THE
  12. Hi there MM. You can share this with your husband and let him know that we want to help your husband. However, there is a big difference between struggling and asking for help and arguing, complaining, and being unteachable. The longer I was doing the program, the more I realized that the things I got upset about the most on the calls and the advice on the forums was exactly the things I neeeded to change and die to the most in order to become the husband my wife needed me to be. _________________ large one 50 Thanks for your quick analysis on my state of being in the flesh. I realize you
  13. Hi there MM. You can share this with your husband and let him know that we want to help your husband. However, there is a big difference between struggling and asking for help and arguing, complaining, and being unteachable. The longer I was doing the program, the more I realized that the things I got upset about the most on the calls and the advice on the forums was exactly the things I neeeded to change and die to the most in order to become the husband my wife needed me to be.
  14. Thanks Tigger. We are praying for you to get healthy and healed! You have been a blessing to us as well.
  15. Why yes I am. Happy Thanksgiving everyone. Here are the things that I am thankful for in my wife. I am thankful for having a beautiful wife who is super sweet and loving. I am thankful for having a wife who has the best heart of anyone I know. I am thankful that my wife loves to give and get hugs, kisses and smiles. I am thankful that my wife loves to snuggle on the couch and watch TV. I am thankful that my wife loves public displays of affection. I am thankful that my wife loves to hold hands everywhere we go. I am thankful that my wife loves to go on long road trip
  16. Hi there Dory. I'm sorry that we will not be able to attend. I am also sorry I can't make my chocolate chip pancakes for everyone. I have a job now and I wish I could make it. Everyone who makes it out there is in for a great time. You and Nemo are greats hosts.
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