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Great Workshop! We have learned more about ourselves in the last four days than we have in years and yeas of counseling sessions. That would have saved thousands of dollars if we would have done this sooner. Thank you, Donna (and Duane) Donna and I have been looking for inspirational help for 2 years. Going through the Intensive has opened my eye's and heart so deeply. I would recommend this program to people of all circumstances. I am looking forward to becoming the man God desires me to be and to have that Happy Marriage Donna and I so desire. Duane (and Donna) Dear Joel and Kathy (This letter is a co letter from both husband and wife.) Thank you so much for the eye opening experience. I am so amazed at how simple the process is, how it just make so much sense, how if just feels right to the heart and soul in so many ways. And yet how hard it is for some. I pray that every person sees this as a chance to fulfill their place in the perfect design that God has called us to be in the Family. Now that I understand what I am called to be there is no other way for me because my family is so important. My place in my marriage is to important, “God has called me to be something GREAT, A Husband and a Father. “Godis counting on me to be the living example of love.” What does that mean, “God is Love” and God is asking me to be the living love that my family needs so that they not only feel him in there hearts but can see and feel him in my arms. He is counting on me!!! Kathy and Joel you have empowered me, you have given me the eyes to see, the ears to hear, and the hands to reach, the heart to love my wife and my family that without you I could not have been able. Thank you for saving my marriage. Thank you for saving my children’s pain. Thank you for helping me to understand what Gods purpose is for me. Thank you, Joel and Kathy for teaching my husband how to Love Me. Sincerely, Christina and Donald Dilworth Coming to Joel and Kathy's Intensive has helped me tremendously to not only understand many conflicts in our marriage, but also to understand our personalities and our children's personalities. We learned about oxytocin and cortisol. I now understand that my oxytocin deficiency was contributing to my mood swings and my lack of personal physical need to interact with other people. This was the kick we needed to point our marriage in the correct direction. Also, God really uses "Kathys-Mother-in-law" to speak and pray for the couples. I Highly recommend it to EVERY couple. Weecha (and Chickie) Coming to this meeting was a true blessing. It was difficult to build the courage to come and make the trip but it was the best decision I made. I feel that my marriage has been saved. Feeling very blessed. Thank you Joel and Kathy! Chickie (and Weecha) I came to this intensive expecting a miracle. When I signed up I was separated for two weeks from my wife and I was hoping she would come with me by the time the Intensive came around. My wife joined me. I was able to learn reasons why I do things I do. I also had to learn to die to myself to help my wife heal. I am so thankful for Joel and Kathy and their ministry. What an eye opening experience I have made the choice to change and to meet my wife's needs. I look forward to this challenge and with "God's" help I know it will be done! We can have an Outrageously Happy Marriage! One highlight was Saturday when "Kathy's-Mother-in-law" came and prayed over us. What an awesome time. The Lord has blessed her beyond measure. She was able to know how to pray for us and for me in particular. I feel like I was delivered from deep down garbage that has affected my marriage for years. Ken, husband of Amy I am very thankful for this ministry and teaching. My husband was able to hear and receive this information. I had been trying to explain these things to him but was not able to articulate it the way Joel and Kathy did. I did not even want to come this weekend originally. I felt like there was nothing left for me to do. I had tried everything! However, because he was on the calls and reading the books pre-intensive, I could at least go. It was scary but I knew I needed to grow as a person too. I wanted to see what God was going to do with Ken, as he was changing. With Sincere Thanks, Amy of Ken and Amy My partner and I were separated. I said that the only way is therapy and intensive! I am glad we did this because I thought I was the problem. I now realize why I respond the way I do. This will also help me with my relationship with my boys and hopefully help them to be great husbands. I recommend this to every couple whether in good or bad marriages/relationships and as a "must-do" prior to marriage. Hopefully, soon, I will be married on the beach by Joel and Kathy living a happy life until the day I die. Thank you so much for this opportunity. All though we are only on one income and living on savings, I knew that in order to try again in our relationship, that we simply could not afford to NOT do this. Thank you. Kristy of Kristy and "Ford Man" Coming to Joel and Kathy has changed my life before I made it back home. The reason I say this is because I now see what the problem is in our relationship. The saying is "you can't fix the problem till you realize a problem." I have realized the problem, thanks to Joel and Kathy's knowledge and now I can fix it. I will make a happy wife as I live life by the teachings they have taught me in the retreat. Ford Man of Kristy and Ford Man This has definitely been an eye opener for me. I knew I was in trouble when I read the books! There is so much unexpected new information; information that I was completely and totally oblivious to. While the "old" me is screaming "NO! Wrong! Nonsense!" - God is opening my eyes to see the truth contained in ALL the teaching. While I initially felt I wanted to run, and run fast, I am beginning to realize how wrong I have been about so many things for so many years. I have so much to learn and look forward to the growing process. I am ready to climb out of the embryo! Bob (Bob's your uncle) and Diamondlady. This weekend was the last hope for me to have our marriage turned around. I wasn't sure he'd come and if he did, I thought he would walk out but he didn't. We both want and Outrageously Happy Marriage. Now I have hope we can do it! Diamondlady (and "Bobs your uncle")