Especially for the Guys - Becoming Christ-like! I wanted to share with you something that God has showing me and we talked a little about the last time we were all together. I have struggled most of my life in a reactive type emotional way because of wounds that set me up to live in a shame based indentity. If Judy didn't treat me how I thought she should treat me I would become angry and react in negative ways towards her, developing walls of bitterness that would cause her and I both pain and a lose of oneness. Remember what I was saying about how God needs to be our security and He need