Hi there, I am new here. I need advice on my family situation. I have been married to an unbeliever for 28 years. We have 3 children. My son who is 20 years old is in the house and has not worked in 6 months. On Saturday I came home from being out with my daughter and he immediately told us he needed help with the wheel barrel as he was cleaning up the yard. I went into the home and went to my sons’s room to tell him that his dad could use some help with the yard work. I knocked on the door, then opened it when he answered me. I said that his dad was was working hard outside and could use his help. So I asked him. He got angry with me and said what the “f..... did I want “ and “get the “f..... out of his room. He said He had not asked him. I told my husband what transpired and he did nothing. I’m still waiting for him to talk to my son and he hasn’t. How much time do I wait. This is not the first time and I’m afraid it won’t be the last .