Currently living in San Antonio. My wife and I first met at a bowling alley through a mutual friend whom we are both still close to. This was 5 and a half years ago. We married after almost a year of dating. At the time she was still living with her overbearing parents. I was 19, and my wife was 21. Our relationship started off beautifully, and then things became complicated. She'd grown up under an extremely controlling, and abusive father. She'd been home schooled till her entrance into college after senior graduation. Some of her personal baggage included depression, co-dependency issues,