Kay Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 Hi Bruce, I am wondering what you think is going to happen when October comes around and the 2 years is up for the Restraining Order? I sure hope that you aren't figuring to just move back in the house, and thinking that Mindy won't be able to do anything about it. If these thoughts have entered your mind, even just a little, it could explain why you have backslided as much as you have. With or without that legal piece of paper, you are still called by GOD to agape love your wife and to live with her in an understanding way. Surely, you know that Mindy is no where near ready to let you move back in, as it stands, now. Are you okay with this? Do you accept this? Remember that God deals with the heart, and we all would like to know just where your heart is? Your words, sometimes, sound okay, but seriously, what is going on inside of you, when these thoughts about the Restraining Order, come up inside your mind? Please know that I'm not trying to accuse you of anything, but just want to bring this out here, in the open. I think Mindy would feel a whole lot better knowing that you will continue to bring healing to her heart, and respect her wishes, which will most likely be to keep guarding her heart until she feels safe. As you know, this is a process and not a quick fix. So again, just to summarize..... Will you accept what Mindy's heart wants, once the time period for the Restraining order has ended? Thanks ahead of time for your honesty, Kay Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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