September 2013 Intensive Testimonies

[JoelandKathy]

The Marriage Intensive was awesome. It gave us a new way of thinking. Steps to take. It helped us identify and see the issues more clearly. Joel and Kathy are extremely gifted and anointed in this ministry. We loved and learned so much.
Thank you, "A Happy Valentine Too." (Husband of "Happy Valentine")

We enjoyed our intensive weekend. We were blown away by the new way to look at our marriage issues.
Joel and Kathy have one flaw they need to correct.....they don't charge enough for this invaluable teaching.
From a "Happy Valentine." (wife of "A Happy Valentine Too.")

This marriage Intensive was a very helpful thing and I truly believe my marriage would be doomed without it. I was not sure what to expect and they said it straight. It is not going to be an easy walk but one that is worth making.
Thank you both so much for everything. With a lot of diligence on my part and prayer, I firmly believe we can make this work.
Andrew D (Husband of Dawn D.)

This Marriage intensive has most definitely been intense. Joel, Kathy and Kathy's Mother in-law are all amazing people. This has been an "in your face, just do it" experience. I'm hoping we can take the tools we have been given to save our marriage I came to this intensive, not in a Happy Place. One of the best things that made this intensive were the little jokes and the humor they incorporated. And their wonderful daughter Jenifer watched our baby for us. We couldn't have done this without her.
Dawn D ( wife of Andrew D.)

I do appreciate this weekend. It is workable and doable. I didn't believe that my marriage was fixable. I was ready to leave and would have if it wasn't for our three children. ( Between them & God & my beliefs ) I committed adultery for a short time due to not being fulfilled in my marriage. I didn't realize my husband was involved in pornography. Never thought this would happen to us. But realized when you don't do things as a family you are not a family. Not a good place, When you get put down enough, you end up believing it. (We can make God the center of our marriage) with the help of Joel and Kathy. I hope this has been an eye opener for my husband as it has me.
T & C (wife of C & T )

This weekend has been the miracle I needed in my marriage. I was the man who thought I had a great marriage - until the wake up call. My wife was trying to tell me all along that she needed more attention and our marriage needed work, but I just did not hear her. Our marriage went from what "I" thought was perfect to crisis in two weeks. We went from her begging for my attention to another man realizing she needed attention and giving it to her. She totally shut me out and began to focus on him. Thankfully, God was able to allow us to come to Joel and Kathy's intensive. I now realize how much the affair was my fault and how I needed to make my wife priority. Joel and Kathy showed me how I am to be like Christ for my bride and lay down my life for her. I now have hope, the hope needed to save my marriage.
C & T ( husband of T & C )