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The Purpose: Is to get the husband's to "Focus Out" and be proactive. It's called "intentional living." Jesus, when he went to the cross was "intentional" in his living and in his laying down his life for his Bride. Husbands, you are to love your Bride, by laying down your life for her as Christ did for us, the church. Hebrews :25_27 1.HSKC's: Aiming for 20 Hugs, Smiles, Kisses and Compliments a day. If a husband works full time then a wide needs be happy with 8-10 on any given workday. The days he does not work,he needs to intentionally strive for the Gold of 20 hugs, smiles, kisses and compliments. 2.Have your date night set and planned by Wednesday of each week. Including the babysitter. Now, a wife may need to help set up the babysitter, but she needs to know the date and time to schedule the babysitter. 3.Set up a "special date" two months in advance and let your wife know about it so she has something to look forward to. That raises her Oxytocin by her having something nice to look forward to in the future. 4.Track your progress on this string for us to see and encourage and watch the results. 5.LADIES, you too have a part to play: PROACTIVELY RESPONDING TO AGAPE LOVE: meaning his Words and Actions of LOVE. Also, you ladies may need to help with posing the progress. If the husbands are working full time, helping out at home and with the kids, hopefully you will be able to check out the contest together but if not,ladies be willing to post the progress. 6.This will be a 3 month contest. PRIZE: A "Happy wife," a $50 gift certificate to treat your Bride out to dinner AND a copy of Forrest Gumps book called " 21 DAYS TO SAVE MY MARRIAGE". ( Erik Matlock )